Take your talents and enjoy them, share them, expand them – Kofi Awoonor.
I sometimes wonder how I survived the first 10 years of my career. Caught in a circle of jobs that didn’t fulfill me, I was so drastically out of sync with who I was, where my desires lay and what my natural born strengths were that its hardly surprising I spent most of my early career feeling drained and unhappy. Id somehow found myself applying to jobs where I had to work with people constantly, organize busy events, give presentations to rowdy teenagers, and work in large, open plan offices where there was never a quiet moment.
For people-loving extroverts who thrive in buzzy environments these kind of jobs are perfect. But for me?
Well, I’m more of a quiet, creative, introverted type. When given the choice I’ll pick writing over talking, solitude over open plan, and quiet reflection over debate. I couldn’t have been further from my natural ‘flow’ if I’d tried.
Just like you, and just like every other human on this planet, I have strengths. Strengths that I was born with, that run through my blood, and which, when used effectively, allow me to be the best and most successful person I can be.
These days I am much more in tune with who I am. I work from the quiet of my home, I teach people through online courses rather than face to face, and I market myself using blogging and social media which I love. I’ve shaped my career to fit beautifully with who I am and where I really shine. And, do you know what? I’ve never looked back.
To help you on your way here are 3 key tips that will help you to go on a journey of self-discovery, shape your life to fit with who you are and ultimately allow you to work in a way that embraces your natural strengths in all their wonderful glory.
Develop the art of self-awareness
The more self-aware you are of how tasks and situations make you feel, the easier it will be to figure out what your strengths are. Take note of how easy or difficult you find activities and give yourself the time and space to reflect on how things went (using a journal can be great for this).
Be aware of moments when time just seems to fly by. If you feel motivated, happy and energized the likelihood is that you’ll be using your strengths in some way. Look out for common themes and tasks that you regularly find yourself drawn to and begin to build a picture of yourself that you can use to help guide your decisions.
Focus your attentions on the activities where you shine
Because your natural strengths are the things you are best at, it makes sense to focus on the tasks that allow you to use them to your advantage. When you are working in a way that fits with who you are, you’ll work more efficiently, will feel more motivated, and ultimately will have a far greater chance of success.
Don’t be afraid of change
I’m a big believer in viewing your life as a living, breathing creation that you can shape over time depending on what you know about yourself.
Sometimes we think we know exactly how a certain task or activity will make us feel, however, as I’ve found out many times before, things don’t always turn out as expected.
Don’t be afraid to make changes in your life when things don’t feel quite right. I’m all for making plans but if in reality that plan is making you miserable, take a step back and consider what you could do instead to make it more ‘you’.
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